I’ll Help You Express and Share Your Wildest Sexual Desires in a Confident, Conscious, Consensual Way.   Here’s how…

authenticity.picHundreds of my clients have learned the practices I have developed to  honestly embrace their innate desires for BDSM, dominance, submission, and the edgiest realms of their desires and express them in a conscious, consensual healthy manner. Developed over 20 years of study these easy to follow practices will help you express your innate, authentic sexuality free of shame, fear and cultural or religious judgment.

Ready to get sexually honest, confidently  express and share your wildest sexual desires, and attract a consenting partner? I can help. An initial consultation can be arranged via Skype, Phone or in Person Learn More


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There is no one way to be an Erotic Dominant. Each man is unique and should develop his own code of Dominance. That said, D/s between a man and woman in this modern era is complex territory. I offer my 20 years experience as a Lifestyle Dom to help you through the maze of complexity to find your own confident, empowered compelling version of being an Erotic Dominant.

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Decoding Your Kink               Getting Stellar Reviews!


“Visionary… Masterful… Groundbreaking… Cutting Edge…Worth its Weight in Diamonds … Highly Recommended …Compelling…Written from the Heart…A Must Read” 

These are some of the early exclamations from sex positive psychologists, therapists, relationship specialists and Kink sex educators who reviewed my new book Decoding Your Kink. I am excited and honored my peers and colleauges have given the book such generous accolades. I feel encouraged to help more people discover the potent sexual pleasures of engaging their Kinky desires in healthy, fulfilling shame-free ways. To learn more about the book, the full text of the reviews and the scintiallting insights and roadmaps into consious Kink sexuality found in Decoding Your Kink click here

Discover your Personal Erotic Myth – Free Survey

heels.grippedKnowing Your PEM Can Open You to Unimagined Sexual Ecstasy,  Deepen  Intimacy in Your Relationships,  Help You Avoid Erotic Mismatches in Long Term Relationships and Create More Successful  Relationship Outcomes!   A Personal Erotic Myth (PEM) contains the fantasy imagery, story-lines, dialogue, props, settings attire,  personas and actions, that drive a person that has a PEM to orgasm, or other deep erotic states.
It is often expressed in fetish, kink and D/s-BDSM oriented sex. Some people are quite aware of their PEM. Some may have multiple PEM’s that ebb and flow in their sex life. For many others,  it is  still an unconscious but compelling force, just below acknowledged awareness,  that drives their sexual desire. It is the aspect of their Eros that they have not looked at, or engaged in consciously.  But during sex, in the moments right before orgasm,  it can flood into the body in wild, fierce gestures, accompanied by vocalized profane, blasphemous invectives (sound-bytes from the PEM). If you are curious, and ready to discover more about your PEM take the FREE Personal Erotic Myth Research Survey.
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