Your Sexuality is your Birthright!   I want to help you reclaim it…

authenticity.picImagine if you could just be Honest about how Sexual you really are. Release  Shame, Fear & Sex-Negative Internal Judgments.  Shift Secretive Sexual Compulsivity to Sexual Authenticity. Learn to Express Your Personal Sexual Desires for Kink or other modalities in a Compelling, Consensual, Fulfilling Shame-free Way.

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Your innate sexuality is your birthright. It is meant to be enjoyed. It is meant to be expressed in an honest, shame-free way.  No matter how you may have struggled in the past with  secretive, compulsive, unhealthy sexual behaviors, or avoided your sexuality all-together, you can still learn to become sexually honest, authentic and fulfilled. Your current and future partners will be so grateful that you did! Developed over 20 years, I have helped hundreds of people like you learn easy to follow practices to  confidently express their innate, authentic sexuality.  This includes understanding the internalized cultural. religious and family belief systems that may have entangled your authentic sexual nature with shame, fear or loathsome self-judgment. For others it may also include reclaiming personal power and self-worth that may have been lost from sexual traumas and emotional woundings growing up. The process is to continually move towards what you want and away from what does not serve your intention.

Do you want to learn to confidently  express and share your wildest fantasies in an honest, direct way? Do you want to attract a consenting, happy to engage partner, or move towards that with your current partner?  Are you ready to step away from sexually compulsive, risky sexual behaviors and  get honest about your sexuality – even your most taboo sexual desires?  I can help. An initial consultation can be arranged via Skype, Phone or in Person 

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   Decoding Your Kink          Read 50 Shades? – Read This Next!

“Visionary… Masterful… Groundbreaking… Cutting Edge…Worth its Weight in Diamonds … Highly Recommended …Compelling…Written from the Heart…A Must Read” 

These are some of the early exclamations from sex positive psychologists, therapists, relationship specialists and Kink sex educators who reviewed my new book Decoding Your Kink. I am excited and honored my peers and colleauges have given the book such generous accolades. I feel encouraged to help more people discover the potent sexual pleasures of engaging their Kinky desires in healthy, fulfilling shame-free ways. To learn more about the book, the full text of the reviews and the scintiallting insights and roadmaps into consious Kink sexuality found in Decoding Your Kink click here

To buy on or recommend to a friend, here is the link for Decoding Your Kink on Amazon.

Discover your Personal Erotic Myth – Free Survey

heels.grippedKnowing Your PEM Can Open You to Unimagined Sexual Ecstasy,  Deepen  Intimacy in Your Relationships,  Help You Avoid Erotic Mismatches in Long Term Relationships and Create More Successful  Relationship Outcomes!   A Personal Erotic Myth (PEM) contains the fantasy imagery, story-lines, dialogue, props, settings attire,  personas and actions, that drive a person that has a PEM to orgasm, or other deep erotic states.
It is often expressed in fetish, kink and D/s-BDSM oriented sex. Some people are quite aware of their PEM. Some may have multiple PEM’s that ebb and flow in their sex life. For many others,  it is  still an unconscious but compelling force, just below acknowledged awareness,  that drives their sexual desire. It is the aspect of their Eros that they have not looked at, or engaged in consciously.  But during sex, in the moments right before orgasm,  it can flood into the body in wild, fierce gestures, accompanied by vocalized profane, blasphemous invectives (sound-bytes from the PEM). If you are curious, and ready to discover more about your PEM take the FREE Personal Erotic Myth Research Survey.
 Once you take the survey, you can review the fascinating statistics and comments of over 2400 previous responders. Learn More

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