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Teen Porn Panic

 

In a panic about rampant porn viewing warping teen sexuality? Great! It’s a big concern. But if Sex-Ed is not the next word out of your mouth, then close it. Please. You are part of the problem. And by sex education, I mean informed, diverse, comprehensive, sex-positive, evidence-based year to year curriculums from middle school forward, not moral and religious based abstinence policies. This is what will be required to allow our young people to take their sexuality out of the uncertain shadowy Sex-Ed offered by the internet, playground and locker-room. Sex-Ed is critical to allow our teens to engage their sexuality, if they choose, in an informed, conscious, negotiated, consensual way. If you stand for decreased teen pregnancies, STD’s, consent violations, life-long anxiety, shame, secretiveness and utter confusion about their sexual desires and identity, then put your zealous fervor behind getting Sex-ED into our educational curriculum.

  

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At Ease

 
Those that can not soften risk being shattered
 

 

 

  

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Sexual Poison

 

Sexual shame poisons our authentic sexuality. The poison infects, distorts and inhibits our natural sexual expression. Our immersion in shame-driven environments and cultures has bred sex-negative emotional messages within our psyches that can relentlessly inject fear or disgust into the same moment we are getting turned on. Our vulnerable sexual psyche can be flooded with all manner of harsh moral judgments, embarrassment, unworthiness, or inhibitions. In subtle to overt ways our sexual joy and ecstasy can be diminished if not lost altogether. This poisonous effect can be particularly potent, if we feel very shy or inhibited to begin with. To overcome deep shame, we must develop practices to mindfully encourage, love and consciously express our authentic sexuality. We will need to come face to face with all that resists or diminishes our fullest expression emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. There is no other antidote I know to exuberantly reclaim your sexual birthright.

 

 

 

  

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Sex and Violence

 

 

What separates sex from violence is Eros.  Without the intention of mutual Eros, sex is an attack, a take down, a mounting of one over another, a hunger sated, a biological imperative fulfilled.  It is predator and prey at its most primal, cold-blooded expression.  It is the re-enactment of the hunter and the hunted,  hot-blooded and ravenous, if still inhumane.  What unites sex with our humanity is Eros. Eros is the mysterious, creative, sexual dimension of love. Within that love, our Eros may flourish. We may express it in the most tender, sensuous ways imaginable. With a consenting partner, we may explore every taboo, primitive, wild lust ever conceived. Within Eros both are gateways to profound intimacy and liberated ecstasy.

 

 

 

  

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Cradle to Grave

 

 

The Erotic Wilderness is a vast territory well beyond the societal norm. It is a complex, alluring aspect of the sexual psyche largely unexplored by individuals, couples or culture. Eros relentlessly and seductively beckons us to venture into the ecstatic intoxicating sexual depths within. Too many men and women have barely ventured, and left their Erotic Wilderness unexplored for decades. Some try to explore it in secretive shadowy ways, often with disastrous results. Some abandon their sexuality completely. It feels safer to remain within the narrows of normal, cradle to grave, rather than explore it in a conscious healthy way. What will you do now, when Eros calls?

 

 

 

  

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Your Only Chance

All I can do and give is my best effort to my life and mission…the rest is up to the mystery, often called Spirit. I try to revisit this awareness when I am feeling some loathsome, fearful, shaming self-judgment that I am going to fail or fall embarrassingly short. I wasn’t perfect! I won’t ever be lovable! My experience with the mystery reminds me to forgive and love myself anew. Always give your best. Be passionate about your life and mission. Be smart. Work hard. But understand there can be times where nothing is working. When every resource feels depleted. In these moments, the only chance you may have to stay on mission and survive, is a small to very large miracle. If you can risk leaning on blind faith, to surrender to something beyond your own will, the mystery may miraculously carry you out of harms way and nudge you along … or drop-kick you to the next leg of your magical journey.
  

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Human-Sexual Beings

 

An unprecedented percentage of the world population – men, women and a pantheon of identities in-between, are choosing to be liberated sexual beings. They no longer ignore nor hide that they are sexual creatures well beyond the imperative of procreation. This has never happened before en masse in the hsitory of civilization. The jet set of every age frolicked madly, but not the masses. In this era more and more everyday people are making their sexual rights, and authentic expressions, a valid part of their human experience. People are deciding their personal sexuality deserves as much care, education, expression and nourishment as their physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs. They want most of all for their personal sexuality to be granted the nonchalance of normalcy, no matter the content of their sexual identity or expression. Sexual authenticity, consensually practiced, is a fundamental human right.
  
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Leap of Faith

 

If in some moment you feel desperate and hopeless, pushed to the very edge of your existence, a leap of faith may be the only leap you have. left. When rationality and determination have been depleted, don’t hesitate. Leap! FREE-fall into the dark impossible abyss of surrender where miracles, reversals of misfortune, twists of fate, unanticipated anomalies, synchronicities and all other potentials of the magical mystery of life are waiting to lift you up. You have nothing to lose. Faith is the gateway to the miraculous.

 

 
  
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Plan Your Escape Now!

 

If someone dwells in the safety of the shallows they will not find the deeper experience life offers. Popular culture is designed to keep us in the shallows. We are encouraged to kill the time we have for life with frivolous pursuits. It is the path most will follow, and maybe rightly so. For them! But if your soul burns to dwell in the depths where you touch the sacred, where personally meaningful art emerges, magical intimacy occurs, ecstatic passions express, inspiration launches you beyond any tangible limitation, then dive deep. Escape the shallows. This is what you are meant to do.

 

 
  
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    What if it isn’t Sex/Porn Addiction, but Sexual Authenticity Disorder (SAD)?

What if it isn’t Sex/Porn Addiction, but Sexual Authenticity Disorder (SAD)?

 

 

Date: May 31, 6:30 pm Pacific time

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Are you struggling with Sex/Porn addiction, or is it Sexual Authenticity Disorder (SAD)?

Galen Fous MTP coined the term SAD to define the deep-seated fear his clients expressed of revealing or others discovering the hidden, and often compulsive aspects of their sexuality. SAD is most often the result of growing up in a restrictive, shaming, sex-negative family, religion and/or social culture. The individual afflicted with SAD was never allowed honest discussion nor encouragement about their personally natural sexual desires.

This webinar invites you to open your eyes to a new way of viewing your sexuality, and addressing the compulsive issues you may be dealing with. You will learn specific practices you can follow to shift from compulsivity to authenticity.

This webinar can also be valuable to therapists and counselors looking to support their clients through the complexities of their sexual desire and its honest expression.

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